Sometimes the inevitable cannot be avoided. The incredible reach of the Internet, coupled with the natural curiosity and growing interest in sex among adolescents, often leads to children and young people being exposed to pornographic images. Studies show that many 12-year-olds have been exposed to pornography and that access to pornography via smartphones and computers is widespread. How can parents deal with this? Let's shed light on this delicate topic together and give you some helpful tips.

The elephant in the room: The first step to the solution

It is important not to be overwhelmed by the thought: “Help, my child is watching porn on the Internet!” Instead, parents should learn to deal with the topic openly and constructively. The first step is to talk to the child. Address the issue without accusations and without fear of punishment. Make it clear that sexuality is a positive thing and that it's okay to have questions about it.

What the films don't show: The reality behind the fiction

It's important to explain to your child that porn doesn't show reality. They are like fantasy films that use actors and technical tricks to tell a story. They do not reflect the complexity, emotions and empathy that make up a real sexual relationship.

It is also important to educate your child about the legal aspects of pornography and the rules at their school. In many schools, possession of pornographic videos on your cell phone can have serious consequences, such as: B. an expulsion from school. Your child needs to understand the possible consequences of their actions.

Sources of information: Where can your child get the right information?

Show your child where they can find out more about sexuality. The Internet offers many reputable sites for young people to deal with the topic safely and responsibly, such as the site www.ratauf Draht.at . Information sources outside the Internet are also helpful, such as the BMFJ brochure “Love, Sex and so on.”

Media criticism: How to turn your child into a critical consumer

Help your child develop a critical understanding of media. This also includes the ability to distinguish between staged pornography and real sexuality. Encourage your child to question what is being shown and to pay attention to unhealthy representations.

Body awareness and self-determination: The keys to self-responsibility

Promote your child's body awareness and self-determination. Teach him to make his own decisions and take responsibility for them. Teach your child that their body belongs to them and that they have the right to determine their own sexuality.

Bottom line: It's easy to panic when you hear, "Help, my kid is watching porn on the internet!" However, it is important to remain calm and seek conversation. The goal should not be to suppress your child's curiosity, but to help him develop a healthy understanding of sexuality. It's a conversation that goes beyond pornography and builds trust, openness and understanding between you and your child. It is a journey that we as a society must take together, and with the right approach it can become a valuable lesson for your child.

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